Go Back  The Hull Truth - Boating and Fishing Forum > BOATING FORUMS > SportFishing and Charters Forum
Reload this Page >

What is a good way to rub it in when someone bails on a fishing trip

Notices

What is a good way to rub it in when someone bails on a fishing trip

Old 11-13-2019, 08:15 AM
  #1  
Senior Member
Thread Starter
 
Join Date: Sep 2016
Posts: 735
Received 317 Likes on 185 Posts
Default What is a good way to rub it in when someone bails on a fishing trip

so my buddy who calls me at least once a week asking when I will take him fishing bailed out on me for the second time in a row the day before we were gonna go.

since I had already taken the time off work and gotten everything together I went all by my lonesome self.

Fishing was was excellent and I will be eating real good for a week.

So now the question is do I best rub it in?

Popular Reply

11-13-2019, 08:23 AM
thefever
Admirals Club Admiral's Club Member
 
Join Date: Sep 2011
Posts: 785
Received 175 Likes on 78 Posts
Default

Tell him about the "Hooters" boat that broke down and you saved them, boy were THEY thankfull !!!
Old 11-13-2019, 08:23 AM
  #2  
Admirals Club Admiral's Club Member
 
Join Date: Sep 2011
Posts: 785
Received 175 Likes on 78 Posts
Default

Tell him about the "Hooters" boat that broke down and you saved them, boy were THEY thankfull !!!
Old 11-13-2019, 08:30 AM
  #3  
Senior MemberCaptains Club Member
 
Join Date: Apr 2003
Location: Austin Hill Country
Posts: 548
Likes: 0
Received 74 Likes on 24 Posts
Default

That "buddy" wouldn't get a third chance from this captain. Extremely inconsiderate of anyone to bail twice in a row considering all of the effort / prep / expense the boat owner has to go through to make the trip happen...
Old 11-13-2019, 08:32 AM
  #4  
Member
 
Join Date: Jul 2011
Posts: 88
Received 13 Likes on 6 Posts
Default

I was going to suggest getting some good quality lube and a large roll of Bounty....

than I got it...

in all seriousness, invite him over for dinner and put a BigMac on his plate with the best catch on yours.
Likes:
Abib, AGENT86, CB101, FlyingTexan, Fueldoc, Graham1, kmagnuss, Wood boat builder and 3 others liked this post. (Show less...)
Old 11-13-2019, 08:34 AM
  #5  
Admirals Club Admiral's Club Member
 
Join Date: Dec 2009
Posts: 1,045
Received 95 Likes on 74 Posts
Default

Next time take a deposit.. Works for charters.
Old 11-13-2019, 08:36 AM
  #6  
Admirals Club Admiral's Club Member
 
Join Date: Feb 2014
Location: Panama City, FL
Posts: 476
Received 1,102 Likes on 493 Posts
Default

The best way to rub it in is to tell him that he won't get invited again since he had two opportunities and stood you up both times. If he is a close friend, explain why. If he isn't, let him figure it out for himself.

Or, if you wanted to teach him a lesson. Tell him to buy bait, food and drinks and to show up at 7:00, but leave at 6:00 before he gets there. When he asks where you are, ask him how it feels to go through the trouble of getting everything together only to be stood up.
Old 11-13-2019, 08:36 AM
  #7  
Admirals ClubCaptains Club Member Admiral's Club Member
 
Join Date: Apr 2005
Posts: 2,125
Received 672 Likes on 332 Posts
Default

easy... keep telling him about how epic is was. best trip ever, fish were everywhere, it was crazy, never seen anything like it. then tell him how you were just lucky, it rarely is ever that good.
Old 11-13-2019, 08:39 AM
  #8  
Senior Member
Thread Starter
 
Join Date: Sep 2016
Posts: 735
Received 317 Likes on 185 Posts
Default

I was kinda mad about it cause I would have taken someone else but dude just keeps asking and asking.

i guess I’m not the inly one that thought it was crap maybe better not to rub it in at all and just to not make plans with him again.
Likes:
Go Boating, jbdba01, Kaimana, petrel, Sixstring, solarfry and 1 others liked this post. (Show less...)
Old 11-13-2019, 08:41 AM
  #9  
Senior Member
 
Join Date: May 2006
Location: Suffolk, Va.
Posts: 17,484
Likes: 0
Received 2,035 Likes on 1,028 Posts
Default

What was his reason to cancel both times? Is he the type of person that cancels things at the last minute often?
Likes:
Old 11-13-2019, 08:43 AM
  #10  
Senior MemberCaptains Club Member
 
Join Date: Apr 2003
Location: Austin Hill Country
Posts: 548
Likes: 0
Received 74 Likes on 24 Posts
Default

Bail once, heh, shit and life happen, we get it. Bail 2x in a row and it's a character thing with the dude.
Likes:
bbnuser, bonecrusher1, kmagnuss, Lone Ranger, Lprizman, Mako1114, N747JB, petrel, rickpcfl, ttwo and 5 others liked this post. (Show less...)
Old 11-13-2019, 08:48 AM
  #11  
Member
 
Join Date: Nov 2018
Posts: 97
Likes: 0
Received 158 Likes on 89 Posts
Default

I wouldn't "rub it in ". I wouldn't talk about it with him. if he brings up the subject,change it. If he pushes the issue,tell him straight up that you're mad,you don't want to talk about it until you're NOT mad,and he will never get another opportunity to come again. Don't ask.

Even if I weren't mad. Just like with little children sometimes you've gotta act angry.
Old 11-13-2019, 08:51 AM
  #12  
Admirals Club Admiral's Club Member
 
Join Date: Aug 2009
Posts: 12,400
Likes: 0
Received 302 Likes on 209 Posts
Default

Hide the bait you didn't use in his car. Or maybe the guts from the fish you caught.
Likes:
Old 11-13-2019, 08:58 AM
  #13  
Senior Member
Thread Starter
 
Join Date: Sep 2016
Posts: 735
Received 317 Likes on 185 Posts
Default

Originally Posted by fishingfun View Post
What was his reason to cancel both times? Is he the type of person that cancels things at the last minute often?
he recently got married and I think his new wife had something to do with it
Likes:
Old 11-13-2019, 09:02 AM
  #14  
Senior MemberCaptains Club Member
 
Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Tampa Florida
Posts: 5,812
Received 2,820 Likes on 1,606 Posts
Default

every time you talk to him tell him " hey, will your wife loan you your balls for just one day to go fishing " and keep bringing that up!
Likes:
Old 11-13-2019, 09:05 AM
  #15  
Admirals Club Admiral's Club Member
 
Join Date: Jan 2017
Location: Miami, Fl
Posts: 68
Received 27 Likes on 20 Posts
Default

Originally Posted by Wood boat builder View Post


he recently got married and I think his new wife had something to do with it
If this was the reason he definitely wouldn't be hearing from me again.
Likes:
Old 11-13-2019, 09:07 AM
  #16  
Senior MemberCaptains Club Member
 
Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: Ocean City, NJ
Posts: 2,102
Received 309 Likes on 175 Posts
Default

No one that bails twice on fishing trips gets asked a 3rd time on our boat. Wives, girlfriends, excuses have no bearing. We can still be friends. You will just not be included in our fishing plans. Hell, I even have a brother in-law who was asked several times when we first started running offshore regularly 14 years ago, and declined due to wives, family, etc. He has mentioned several times since that he would love to experience what it is like to run offshore and catch marlin and tuna, but has never been asked again. There are too many others that want to make the run offshore to worry about asking people that can't be counted on, and don't know the significance of the opportunity that is being presented to them.

Last edited by cobraarvey; 11-13-2019 at 10:07 AM.
Old 11-13-2019, 09:10 AM
  #17  
Senior MemberCaptains Club Member
 
Join Date: Apr 2003
Location: Austin Hill Country
Posts: 548
Likes: 0
Received 74 Likes on 24 Posts
Default

Originally Posted by Rolandt03 View Post
every time you talk to him tell him " hey, will your wife loan you your balls for just one day to go fishing " and keep bringing that up!
Ha!!! Good one!!!
Old 11-13-2019, 09:12 AM
  #18  
Admirals Club Admiral's Club Member
 
Join Date: Jul 2013
Location: N.E. Tennessee
Posts: 345
Received 468 Likes on 197 Posts
Default

Next time that he asks, tell him when and call it off at the last minute.
Likes:
Old 11-13-2019, 09:13 AM
  #19  
Senior Member
Thread Starter
 
Join Date: Sep 2016
Posts: 735
Received 317 Likes on 185 Posts
Default

Originally Posted by Rolandt03 View Post
every time you talk to him tell him " hey, will your wife loan you your balls for just one day to go fishing " and keep bringing that up!
i will remember that the next time he asks “when we going fishing again”
Old 11-13-2019, 09:13 AM
  #20  
Senior MemberCaptains Club Member
 
Join Date: Jan 2005
Location: NC
Posts: 943
Likes: 0
Received 4 Likes on 4 Posts
Default

Well that's fine...……. I guess your wife will take your spot once again

Thread Tools
Search this Thread

Contact Us - Archive - Advertising - Cookie Policy - Privacy Statement - Terms of Service - Do Not Sell My Personal Information

Copyright © 2018 MH Sub I, LLC dba Internet Brands. All rights reserved. Use of this site indicates your consent to the Terms of Use.