77LikesYour intentions with my daughter?
02-11-2019, 04:49 PM
#41
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Forget the threats to her or to the boyfriend.
You can only hope for respect from the both of them.
Force and threats will not work on either side of this deal and threats may even make it worse.
The only thing I was afraid of growing up was disappointing my parents. Despite the ass whopping and restrictions of all means the look of disappointment on their face was the worst punishment I ever got..
I suppose my parents were dumb because they loved and cared about me.
That is why this country is where it is right now. No home life, no respect and the allowance to enable bad behavior to save the good boy as my baby mamma says. It's getting worse every day and becoming more acceptable to the masses.
You can only hope for respect from the both of them.
Force and threats will not work on either side of this deal and threats may even make it worse.
The only thing I was afraid of growing up was disappointing my parents. Despite the ass whopping and restrictions of all means the look of disappointment on their face was the worst punishment I ever got..
I suppose my parents were dumb because they loved and cared about me.
That is why this country is where it is right now. No home life, no respect and the allowance to enable bad behavior to save the good boy as my baby mamma says. It's getting worse every day and becoming more acceptable to the masses.
02-11-2019, 05:45 PM
#43
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Originally Posted by Gullpt
I’m dying to ask,,, but I won’t,
Originally Posted by autobaun70
Ever had one dude show up for both daughters?
02-11-2019, 08:10 PM
#45
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I’m the “yes sir no sir” guy when I meet the parents. Dads seem to love me, but moms usually see the real me, lol. I’m the guy who bangs both your daughters, talks them into 3 somes, and tells them to just try road head once.
02-11-2019, 08:19 PM
#46
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Originally Posted by Lunchmoney
I have a 17yo daughter. I just let them know that I have a very particular set of skills.
17 year old me would be the absolute shit out of 34 year old me.. Loofahs, bodywash and the suburbs don't compete with daily weightlifting, playing football, and hockey fighting.
02-11-2019, 09:02 PM
#50
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Ahh brings me back to the days meeting the girls parents. Nice collared shirt, smile talk about academics ect. One dad told me to cut the shit lol. He knew damn well as soon as we left I was about to try every damn trick in my book to make them panties come off.
02-11-2019, 09:13 PM
#51
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I dont like how some of us categorize guys like they're all animals. When she was 17 I knew I wanted to marry her. I told her dad if I didnt have his blessing I would walk away. I wasnt just thinking about one thing as the saying goes I really did want to marry her and grow old together. Been married 13 years, strong relationship, 5 kids.
I think with my daughters when the time comes my rule will be that I have to get to know the kid. We can go fish, hunt whatever, I don't care. But I have to spend time with him and find out who he is and what his intentions are.
I think with my daughters when the time comes my rule will be that I have to get to know the kid. We can go fish, hunt whatever, I don't care. But I have to spend time with him and find out who he is and what his intentions are.
02-11-2019, 09:26 PM
#52
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Location: Fort Myers, FL
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My older brother (RIP) set me straight years ago. My oldest daughter Cathy was about 3 months old. All I could talk about was “baby Cathy this”, “baby Cathy that”. Gary had 5 kids, 3 girls, 2 boys. He finally had enough of me and said “Jimmy, in about 16 years from now, baby Cathy is gonna be in the back seat of a car suckin’ some guys _____.”
After the horror subsided in me, I realized that he was right; it didn’t matter what the boy will say (he’s gonna say whatever you want to hear), it’s what my daughter(s) are going to do.
Have the talk with your daughter - NOT the boy.
After the horror subsided in me, I realized that he was right; it didn’t matter what the boy will say (he’s gonna say whatever you want to hear), it’s what my daughter(s) are going to do.
Have the talk with your daughter - NOT the boy.
02-12-2019, 04:17 AM
#54
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Location: Raleigh & Surf City, NC
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I was never cleaning my guns when boys came by but I did make them come to the front door. When they stepped in they saw my buck on the wall. I'm pretty sure they know he didn't kill himself.
All but one acted like he was supposed to. One took my daughter to his grand parents house in Miami for a few days before a family cruise they were supposed to go on. She called her mom and was crying. I got on the phone and told her to tell him to drive her to the airport and I would have a ticket ready for her. She told me she was scared to ask that. I hung up and was knocking on the grandparents door in 4 hrs. My daughter and the boy weren't there but drove up 10 minutes later. Y'all should have seen the look on his face when he got out of his car. My daughter and I drove back to Raleigh, NC.
I'm extremely easy going and will put up with you doing me wrong. I just won't have anything to do with you anymore, doesn't bother me that much. But, I won't put up with you doing my family wrong (especially my daughter). My son in law knows I have several plans to get rid of a body if needed. I've mentioned an old well at a property I used to hunt, very remote. We were fishing once and our spot got sharked up. I mentioned this would be a good spot to dismember someone and there'd be no evidence left. LOL
All but one acted like he was supposed to. One took my daughter to his grand parents house in Miami for a few days before a family cruise they were supposed to go on. She called her mom and was crying. I got on the phone and told her to tell him to drive her to the airport and I would have a ticket ready for her. She told me she was scared to ask that. I hung up and was knocking on the grandparents door in 4 hrs. My daughter and the boy weren't there but drove up 10 minutes later. Y'all should have seen the look on his face when he got out of his car. My daughter and I drove back to Raleigh, NC.
I'm extremely easy going and will put up with you doing me wrong. I just won't have anything to do with you anymore, doesn't bother me that much. But, I won't put up with you doing my family wrong (especially my daughter). My son in law knows I have several plans to get rid of a body if needed. I've mentioned an old well at a property I used to hunt, very remote. We were fishing once and our spot got sharked up. I mentioned this would be a good spot to dismember someone and there'd be no evidence left. LOL
02-12-2019, 04:20 AM
#55
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Originally Posted by wdkerek
I told my now son-in-law................"good luck". My little girl can damn well handle herself.
Seriously we could not have handpicked a better Son in Law or Daughter in Law, both are truly like our own kids
Honeslty I worried more about my SON as a teenager than our daughter, I am telling you some of these gals will get knocked up on purpose to get out of their situation . Admiral and breathed a sigh of relief when he parted ways with couple girls he dated but Admiral was always very blunt with him to “Cover it up and do not take any chances”
However biggest thing that helped us was our Son, he is 6 yrs older than his sister and he was always protective of her and looked out for her. IF ROSS did not like them they did not stay around long, made our job very easy
02-12-2019, 04:29 AM
#56
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early on when I was dating my wife, my now father in law came over to help me lay some flooring in a room. Went out to grab breakfast and a beer before getting started, and when i pulled out my wallet to pay, he very loudly says ''just cuz your fuckin my daughter don't mean you've gotta pay for my breakfast''
02-12-2019, 04:33 AM
#57
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Originally Posted by tprice
However biggest thing that helped us was our Son, he is 6 yrs older than his sister and he was always protective of her and looked out for her. IF ROSS did not like them they did not stay around long, made our job very easy
02-12-2019, 07:26 AM
#59
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Originally Posted by tprice
Honeslty I worried more about my SON as a teenager than our daughter, I am telling you some of these gals will get knocked up on purpose to get out of their situation . Admiral and breathed a sigh of relief when he parted ways with couple girls he dated but Admiral was always very blunt with him to “Cover it up and do not take any chances”
02-12-2019, 08:31 AM
#60
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I knew one guy that made the guys initial a shotgun shell. I thought that was a little over the top. My parents were very strict and my mom was huge on manners. Its amazing how far a few yes sir, yes ma'ams and helping clean a plate at dinner will go with parents.
Me and my brother went out of our way to make sure parents liked us.
I only had one dad try to do the intimidation deal. It was pathetic. My dad was no joke. So his fake tough guy act was easy to see through.
Me and my brother went out of our way to make sure parents liked us.
I only had one dad try to do the intimidation deal. It was pathetic. My dad was no joke. So his fake tough guy act was easy to see through.
