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Would you or do you let your wife/GF/BF look at your phone if they ask?

Old 06-19-2018, 10:34 PM
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My wife has never asked but if she did ask if she could look at my phone I would gladly hand it to her. I was having a conversation about this with one of my friends and he told me that his wife does not let her phone out of her sight and it is password protected and she won't give him the password. She says that it's her phone and she has a right to her privacy.

I told him that it's my opinion that she is hiding something or else she would not care if he looked at her phone. he even let her look at his phone but she would not reciprocate and let him look at hers.

Has this ever come up with any of you guys? If so how did you give her your phone? Is it actually ok for you to have some privacy even if you are married?
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Old 06-19-2018, 10:40 PM
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My phone is password protected but that's because of the pics of my wife that are on it. She can go through it anytime though.
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Old 06-19-2018, 11:00 PM
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My wifes phone is protected but she gave me the password on day 1. I can't speak for gf/bf/"shackers and crackers" but for LEGALLY MARRIED FOLKS I say if you are owning real estate, autos, financial instruments, having kids etc together yet CANT/WONT let each other look at a personal contact instrument like a phone/laptop etc... then SOMETHING STINKS IN THE RECIPE???

My huntn/fishn buds we always text eachother pics of nekid chix on fishing boats, in a treestand etc... just funny laughs and it's anonymous crap we get off the net. I could care less if my wife sees that and likewise for their wives as well. "Boys will be boys" is the universal excuse they answer us with. I equate it with the girls if they were to text each other guy pics from Chippendales or something like that. Harmless fun IMO. But when it comes to demanding HANDS OFF and you are MY wife??? HAYULL TO DA NAW NAW NAW! You MUST be hiding something and you can come clean right now or if I have to hire an investigator and involve the lawyers then it's going to get A WHOLE LOT WORSE before it likely WONT ever get any better!

My grandmother always told me, "Don't want no BS on your boots then dont walk in the bull pasture!" If a woman is hiding something like a text and it AINT from a salesman for the new boat/gun/truck/lake home she is buying for you, then you BETTER get to the bottom of it AND quick!!!
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Old 06-20-2018, 12:25 AM
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No doubt that she's hiding something. I've observed that behavior time and time again.
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She’s shaggin the yard guy and his besty..
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Old 06-20-2018, 02:17 AM
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IMO, that'd be a red flag.

I have nothing to hide. She has all my passwords as I have hers. I periodically grab her phone on random just too look at pictures she takes of our daughter that I may not have seen and vice versa.
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Old 06-20-2018, 02:58 AM
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Something smells with that.......My wife can't look at my phone......I DON'T have one. Never did.......Never will. Lov'n the freedom I have and watching those that are chained to an electronic device that they allow to control their lives!
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Old 06-20-2018, 03:25 AM
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She deserves her privacy ..... but it wouldn't sit well with me and I would watch her closely .....

My GF said I can look at her phone anytime and we both know our passwords ... but I don't ... If I thought she was cheating I would ..
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Old 06-20-2018, 03:28 AM
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My wife has never asked but if she did ask if she could look at my phone I would gladly hand it to her. I was having a conversation about this with one of my friends and he told me that his wife does not let her phone out of her sight and it is password protected and she won't give him the password. She says that it's her phone and she has a right to her privacy.

I told him that it's my opinion that she is hiding something or else she would not care if he looked at her phone. he even let her look at his phone but she would not reciprocate and let him look at hers.

Has this ever come up with any of you guys? If so how did you give her your phone? Is it actually ok for you to have some privacy even if you are married?
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Old 06-20-2018, 03:32 AM
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My life is very transparent.
Anyone in the circle that wants to look at anything I have.. feel free.
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Old 06-20-2018, 03:33 AM
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The wife can look at my phone any time she wishes. If I was single with a girlfriend then no.
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Old 06-20-2018, 03:38 AM
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No doubt that she's hiding something. I've observed that behavior time and time again.
X1000

I would even bet $1000 she is cheating

Fiance and I- second relationship for each- Brady bunch 6 kids
have each others passwords not only for phones- but emails, FB, etc. If there is something your partner can not see- they are not your partner.
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Of course I would and my wife does the same.

i agree that it’s a bad sign, been there, done that, bought the t shirt.
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Of course I would and my wife does the same.

i agree that it’s a bad sign, been there, done that, bought the t shirt.
Yeah, sometimes that "shirt" ^^^ costs hundreds of thousands of dollars!!
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Old 06-20-2018, 03:54 AM
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Originally Posted by Striper In View Post
My life is very transparent.
Anyone in the circle that wants to look at anything I have.. feel free.

is that the circle of -no fish today--??????---
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She deserves her privacy ..... but it wouldn't sit well with me and I would watch her closely .....

My GF said I can look at her phone anytime and we both know our passwords ... but I don't ... If I thought she was cheating I would ..
Same here.
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My phone is out 24-7...no sound when typing today....cause yesterday I woke Kelly up while typing......she's gone to work now....but I got the message.

Hiding your side piece of ass????

Been there done that.....know what????

I loved it!!!!!!!!
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Smoking hot double d live in tall blonde girlfriend during it to boot...thank god I never was into coke.....
I digress....what are we talking about????

Lolol!!!

Great day all!!!!
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Hell no. I'd never let my wife look at my phone. She might see pictures of my GF. My GF can't either because she might see pics of my BF. And he definitely can't because nobody wants to see that shitshow. Talk about a drama queen...

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Get burner phones.....forgot to mention while reminiscing

Never forget..... Nadine says what's stuck underneath your sunroof -
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is that the circle of -no fish today--??????---
Go away!

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