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Old 05-19-2018, 11:27 AM
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Default A happy ending to a "My God story".

A co worker of my wife is one of those people that walk around with a cloud over her head most of the time. She had a rough childhood, but managed to graduate college and become a teacher. Early on she was a bit of a slouch on the job and got transferred most likely because of it. She was and is a fun person to be with, always happy but masking some hidden issues.

She hooked up with a guy about 6 years ago and got pregnant, we thought, "My god" what in the world is she thinking? The 2 of them tried to make a go of it as a couple but in the end the guy was more into partying then his own daughter and they split (never married). After several months of visitation the mother told him if he didn't stop his partying she was going to limit his visits and custody. He didn't stop and she went to court.

The judge told the guy to take a drug test and he would have partial custody again, the guy balked at taking a pee test being it was only Monday morning. So the judge said, come back when your ready to take the test and we will give you partial custody. Guy make a court date for the following month and says he's ready to pee in the cup, judge (good judge) says. "Oh no, we're doing a hair follicle test." Father says, he wants a DNA test to confirm he's the father first. Court administers the test and has them both come back to court 2 months later for results and possible hair follicle test.

They both return but this time the father is bald, completely bald, as in shaved his entire body bald.

Judge says, you are the father DNA proves it, but no0 visitation or custody until you produce hair for us to pluck, do you think you're going to toy with me young man!" Well this father of the year hasn't seen his daughter in over 1 year now, is still bald but in the mean time is making the mothers life a living hell.

the child is now 5, the mother, (remember her, the one with the cloud over her head) took a video of the child as an infant taking a bath and mom pinches her butt and says, "This is mine" (so I'm told). Mom sent this video to a few friends with the caption of "Don't tell DYFS") Well father of the year comes across this old video in his phone and reports her to the FBI! Mom got herself arrested 11 days ago, phone and computer confiscated, charged with distributing child porn and sex trafficking, suspended from her job as a teacher and forced to wear an ankle bracelet. Needless to say she also lost her 5 year old while this all played out! (Be careful what you post on social media folks)

The good news came to us today that ALL CHARGES AGAINST MOM HAVE BEEN DROPPED WITHOUT PREJUDICE! SHE HAS HER CHILD BACK AND LIFE WILL SOON GO BACK TO HER NORMAL. Of course there will be co-workers and others that will always look at the mom as a pedophile and child trafficker, but screw them, what else can you do about how people think.

At first I was very apprehensive about her being a mom, but I have to say in the past 5 years she has made a complete turn around as a person. We are so happy this has been dealt with and that the outcome has complete and definitive in her favor.
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It pays not to get too excited when things seem pretty bad. Often things turn out pretty good when at first you get very troubling news.
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^^^I hate hearing crap like this ... Clearly she should have never been charged..Now it has F'd her life up.
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good for her, but I, for the life of me cant figure out the motive of why people have to put out there on the interweb so many personal things about their lives, including pictures of family, children, and things that should, and used to be private - Hasnt there been enough stories about things people put out on social media only to have in bite them in the azz. Case in point
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Originally Posted by Cracker View Post
^^^I hate hearing crap like this ... Clearly she should have never been charged..Now it has F'd her life up.
I understand the authorities had to follow up and investigate, however the impact it had, arresting her instead of bring her in for questioning was over the top IMO. I'm so glad they got to the bottom and exonerated her, she can walk with her head up, I'd like to see the media post an update as they had posted her photo and occupation in the news. It's tough to recover from the court of public opinion.

Originally Posted by GetReel View Post
good for her, but I, for the life of me cant figure out the motive of why people have to put out there on the interweb so many personal things about their lives, including pictures of family, children, and things that should, and used to be private - Hasnt there been enough stories about things people put out on social media only to have in bite them in the azz. Case in point
She didn't post it on the internet, just sent it to a few friends via text or e-mail. Not something I'd do, but like I said, she has the luck of a person that wears a cloud over their head.
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oh the drama
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Happy for you all, but aside from a rough childhood, none of that was bad luck. It was bad decision making. The sooner she realizes this, the better her luck will be. Best wishes.
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Originally Posted by REMfish7 View Post
Happy for you all, but aside from a rough childhood, none of that was bad luck. It was bad decision making. The sooner she realizes this, the better her luck will be. Best wishes.
Did I say somewhere it was bad luck? You are correct, 100% it's all bad choices that she has made. We all know a person like this, they can't seem to get out of their own way sometimes, just when things are looking good they stub their toe on something else.

She has realized it to a large extent, and learning new and ever more valuable lessons as of late. As I mentioned, she's turned around many things, I hope this is the last big issue she runs up against.
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In my experience reading books like The Power of Positive Thinking has helped life go a little better. I recommend that book.
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Someone needs to carry the sperm donor fishing.....
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There may be more to this story the OP is unaware of.
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Originally Posted by jocko View Post
There may be more to this story the OP is unaware of.
There may well be, being most of the story I get from her point of view, however court actions are pretty cut and dried, as was her arrest and subsequent dismissal of all charges without prejudice. So while I may have missed some tidbits of info the base of the story is solid.
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It takes a real rocket surgeon to appear in front of a judge with a completely shaved body.

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