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Old 11-08-2016, 08:18 AM
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Default Did you ever cheat on your spouse?

If so, why? Failing marriage? Impulse? Drunk?

With who? Friend? Hooker? Drunken hookup?

Did you get caught? Did you fess up?


FWIW, I have not. Drunk flirting with an ex at our high school reunion was as close as I ever came, but that's about it.
Old 11-08-2016, 08:27 AM
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And you are expecting people to answer this?

A poll might be a better way to go...
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I have never and would never, but in my business, I see it all and hear it all....It seems my office has an imaginary light over the door that says "Counseling in session"

I got stories for the stories....that you wouldn't believe.

My wife and I have an amazing relationship that we constantly work on....but we have always said to eachother. If you are going to step out, please don't humiliate me...tell me first and lets end it. It's our mutual agreement.

You can tear into me after hearing this statement if you want but after 20 years of being in the jewelry business and hearing all the stories, I believe that for the most part, people who step out on their spouse, are looking for something they are not getting at home.
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Nope!
I told her at the time the that if we wanted to go and explore some more that we would separate first and then go about our lives just stepping out on people has done a lot of damage to a lot of families and why bring more drama to a very stressful situation when you don't have to. Just packet get it then, go get it somewhere else.
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Originally Posted by freedbaby View Post
I believe that for the most part, people who step out on their spouse, are looking for something they are not getting at home.
There's ALOT that I'm not getting at home, but I have never cheated on my spouse. It's not worth the aggravation for a 15 minute muscle spasm!



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I like my house to much.
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Nope; and I've had opportunity. Can't imagine why you would get married if you didn't plan on remaining faithful or stay married to someone you don't trust.

The one thing I do find funny is the people that do cheat with another cheater; end up marrying the cheater and are surprised when it happens again. How do you not see that coming.
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Originally Posted by padidvr View Post
I like my house to much.
...and my kids, my dogs, my boat etc LOL
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For 5 minutes of excitement...well okay...maybe 3 minutes....NEVER! Why jeoordize what I have worked so hard for? Besides, put the shoe on the other foot for a minute!
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Originally Posted by coddock View Post
For 5 minutes of excitement...well okay...maybe 3 minutes....NEVER! Why jeoordize what I have worked so hard for? Besides, put the shoe on the other foot for a minute!
Wait...is it 5 min or a min
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On my Timex it is 5 minutes, but on my Rolex it is 60 seconds. LOL
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Hell^no.
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Is it cheating if you bring the girl home for her to enjoy too?
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Originally Posted by Liquid Lunch View Post
Is it cheating if you bring the girl home for her to enjoy too?
, nice
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No. Got it out of my system well before marriage - tried one of each type, sometimes two-three of each type... so there is no need to do it again.
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I can barely deal with one, why the hell would I make trouble for my self
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I draw eyes and mouth on my hand and call it Betty.
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Originally Posted by padidvr View Post
I like my house to much.
Honestly, this is a big deterrent for successful people. I work with a mix from the housekeeping staff to people with up to 15 or more years of post graduate education and it is amazing watching the different social mores. People without much do WAY more screwing around. After all, what do they have to loose? Half their debt.
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Originally Posted by 04keywest1720 View Post
I draw eyes and mouth on my hand and call it Betty.
thats funny ,
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Originally Posted by martyf View Post
I can barely deal with one, why the hell would I make trouble for my self

truth.

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