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Old 04-10-2019, 03:03 PM
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So VS - I guess she turned out to be Bi ------- polar, not the other ( good) kind!

There certainly are a lot of broken toys out there these days. We kind of have the holiday/Valentines day speed dating crush off now, seems like there are a lot of women looking for "the relationship" these days..... or maybe I'm just seeing it more instead. Don't know, don't care.
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Old 04-10-2019, 06:33 PM
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I got busy, not sure about the rest of the inmates.

Have kind of had one lady over a lot last few weeks, she has been trying very hard to domesticate me. We had the discussion - " you're not the only one I see", but it seems she only re-doubled her efforts after that. I did have a hard talk with her last night about "shit-testing " me when a friend of mine had too much to drink and stayed over Monday night. I wasn't giving up my friends, just for her sake, however bad choices my friends make, doesn't make me choose her over them as a blanket choice. Said friend WAS female, not someone I am involved with, but the jealousy bone was out full force. Pointed out that although I don't sleep with my ex, I still hang out with her and my daughter, am I getting the stinkeye over that eventually?

Took her to Louisiana with me last weekend, rain and all. While I was out fishing, she re-arranged my kitchen. I was not pleased, that felt a little invasive for my tastes. Thankfully, she has her kid for the next few days, and I have company this weekend, shooting match all weekend keeping me busy. SHe's cute, she's sexy, very giving type girl, smart etc, I hate to just toss her away, but don't like feeling suffocated much either......

There may or may not be a couple of friends come by during the match LOL.
Should’ve made her ass get on the boat
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Old 04-10-2019, 07:18 PM
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Old 04-10-2019, 08:57 PM
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Should’ve made her ass get on the boat
Naw, I was on the boat to get some time AWAY from her!!!!
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Old 04-10-2019, 09:15 PM
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I hit the pre-valentines rush. Rolled through a few, had fun. Met some time wasters and got lucky and found a great one. She 8 years younger, has kids (which I'm happy about,) and very driven in career and personal life as I am. Fitness is a priority to her, even more than me which I've never experience before. It's a big part of my life and I've always been made to feel guilty about it. She runs and we've hit the gym a couple times with no issues...again not an experience I'm used to.

She's never been a boater, fisherman before but is not the least bit phased by it. She's the type that if I told her she needs to learn how to back the trailer in so I can load the boat would say "ok sure, show me how...Ok got it." Tells me she wants to learn to fish this summer.
Don't know how long it will last, but so far I'm pretty happy about it.

Oh yeah, and she's fit, in shape and energetic.

Couple exes in play (one not so happy) and a neighbor that's a (lot younger) that wants to get together, but I don't have time or desire to screw up the current deal. Buy I've done it before so may happen again.
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Old 04-11-2019, 11:02 AM
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Old 05-10-2019, 07:49 AM
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Had an interesting date last night.

As most of you are probably aware, it has been raining for days here in Houston. I was meeting this last at a nice upscale restaurant about midway between our places, and as you might guess, the skies opened up with rain of epic proportions about a half hour before we were scheduled to meet up. I texted her, "please valet when you get there, I got this, don't want you to get soaked getting inside". She answered something about isn't there parking there, and I said yes, but valet is easy etc. I arrived first told her I was in the bar, meet me there.

She arrives, and OMG, had a meltdown. The valet line was about three cars long, not bad at all, for the weather we were having, and of course there was zero non-valet parking available. It is raining so hard, I expected to see an ark pass by on the feeder road of the freeway. Two more suggestions to valet, and she is absolutely freaked out that she has to valet, can't park anywhere etc. Now, mind you, it's an hour from her place, that she has invested already, and she decides to leave without coming in. I'm like whatever, I'm not begging you to do anything, either park or GTFO.

I finished my drink, made another date with a girl that has been asking to go out that lives five minutes from me, retrieved the Jeep, drove back towards the house, met the other girl for a lite late dinner/drinks and ended up sitting in the hot tub in the rain with her till after mid nite.

This morning, the girl that stayed over, said, "you know Mikee, WHY the girl didn't valet?" I was like no, IDGAF, why? I actually wasn't sure, just thought she didn't like people in her car, or was ashamed of her car( not likely, she has a good job). She said, she probably has a current DWI, and has a blow and go installed in her car, and the valet can't start it up afterwards. Mikee goes.... damn, probably it, but if so, I'm not a good fit for her anyways. If I can't depend on my girl to have a few drinks, I might not ever get her clothes off, I need that to cloud her otherwise clear judgement!

Thank goodness for back up plans though!
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Old 05-10-2019, 09:38 AM
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I was wondering when this thread would resurface and Mikee brings it back with a bullet!!
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Old 05-10-2019, 10:24 AM
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Another classic Mikey!
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Old 06-20-2019, 11:14 PM
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Nothing to add but page 25?

Great thread to let go go to the abyss...enjoy the reads.

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Old 06-21-2019, 06:34 AM
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Quick update here, not too much.

Dating right now, a flight attendant, a marketing girl ( actually has a 4 year degree!!), and a couple hardworking yummy mommies. For the most part, no drama, so not much to report or share.

I will say this though, remember those you care about every day, and act that way. You never know when they won't be around. I lost a very close friend earlier this week, a sweet lovely young lady, less than six hours after I last spoke to her, in a tragic accident. I'm glad that everything between us was great, right up until she was gone.

This online dating thing is great y'all, but keep in mind the bigger, higher purpose of life. Remember to hold those close to you, close to you.
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Old 06-21-2019, 06:35 AM
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Originally Posted by MikeeBooshay View Post
Quick update here, not too much.

Dating right now, a flight attendant, a marketing girl ( actually has a 4 year degree!!), and a couple hardworking yummy mommies. For the most part, no drama, so not much to report or share.

I will say this though, remember those you care about every day, and act that way. You never know when they won't be around. I lost a very close friend earlier this week, a sweet lovely young lady, less than six hours after I last spoke to her, in a tragic accident. I'm glad that everything between us was great, right up until she was gone.

This online dating thing is great y'all, but keep in mind the bigger, higher purpose of life. Remember to hold those close to you, close to you.
well said brother...
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Old 06-30-2019, 08:54 AM
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So... I have plans with 3 different women the next 3 weekends. One is the Tica, who is on her way here from Costa Rica right now, one is just a FWB, and the other is one I just met. The last seems to be a keeper, but too late to cancel plans with the others at this point.

First date with the last one... lunch at a marina restaurant, then a trip across the Chesapeake Bay on the Vitamin Sea for dinner at beachside tiki bar where I lost my wallet. Then back on the boat and things got frisky. We drifted pretty far past the Chesapeake Bay Bridge Tunnel with the outgoing tide before we headed back. I finally had her back at the dock around midnight (remember, it was a lunch date). I like this one and the feeling seems to be mutual. Gonna be hard to concentrate on the others in the time being, but I think I can manage it.
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Old 07-01-2019, 01:00 PM
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Careful with the Tica. I dated one, married her, 15 years and 3 kids later we're still happy.
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Old 07-02-2019, 12:34 PM
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Careful with the Tica. I dated one, married her, 15 years and 3 kids later we're still happy.
I swear this woman has cleaned my house inside and and out, cooks, does dishes, and likes sex. I could get used to the this. The new one is smokin hot though. This is a fun problem to have.
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Old 07-02-2019, 02:51 PM
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So... I have plans with 3 different women the next 3 weekends. One is the Tica, who is on her way here from Costa Rica right now, one is just a FWB, and the other is one I just met. The last seems to be a keeper, but too late to cancel plans with the others at this point.

First date with the last one... lunch at a marina restaurant, then a trip across the Chesapeake Bay on the Vitamin Sea for dinner at beachside tiki bar where I lost my wallet. Then back on the boat and things got frisky. We drifted pretty far past the Chesapeake Bay Bridge Tunnel with the outgoing tide before we headed back. I finally had her back at the dock around midnight (remember, it was a lunch date). I like this one and the feeling seems to be mutual. Gonna be hard to concentrate on the others in the time being, but I think I can manage it.

As a past serial on line hook up artist, be careful....you're going to end up alone in the end if you keep trying different flavors. Try one flavor and if you think you like it, let it linger on your tongue for awhile and see if it produces an after taste. Yes, there is a time when you take a bite of one flavor after another because you instantly know it's not going to be one of your favorite flavors, so you move on. When you find one that you think could be a top favorite, you forget about the others while your taking a few bites of this flavor and seeing if it develops an after taste or not. The other flavors will be there if this flavor turns out not to be what you thought it was....if not, so be it. Next. I now realize I missed a few really good one's due to my tasting habits of not letting one flavor mellow and continually perusing the flavors.....but I did have fun tasting the skittles rainbow.
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Old 07-02-2019, 02:51 PM
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Originally Posted by Vitamin_Sea View Post
I swear this woman has cleaned my house inside and and out, cooks, does dishes, and likes sex. I could get used to the this. The new one is smokin hot though. This is a fun problem to have.
Remember the crazy hot matrix. Unicorns do no exist. It’s a dude....
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Old 07-02-2019, 04:46 PM
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Well I have a few minutes to continue to contribute here. I have my youngest daughter this week, we are hanging out all week, everyone in the family is coming over starting tomorrow, good times to be had by all.

I did have a business trip to South America last week, took a few minutes here and there to peruse the local Tinder talent. Oh my Goodness. Men, if you are not getting any dates, get yourself to south America. In less than 2 hours, I had no less than 15 matches, from educated, beautiful young women, within a very few miles radius, in a not real huge town. I'm no real catch, visually speaking, OK but not Burt Reynolds like, but my phone was absolutely blowing up! All these women spoke English, which is good because my Spanish is bad.

On the other hand, I went to West Texas also recently. Oh damn, what a desert, and not talking about climate. I was there for a shooting match, and my buddy that went with me said it perfectly, " it's like Montana or Wyoming, without the scenery, and even the fat chicks feel like they are HOT!". Boom, headshot. I didn't see hardly any chicks I'd date, I saw many MANY buffalo gals, with guys that seemed Very Eager to serve their Mistress of the Moment. I'd hate to be stuck there for work, the price per day would be damn high, no wonder there are so many bar fights and pissed off oil field workers. Something like a 3-1 ratio for men to women, less than 40.

Takeaway moment, is that it does matter, where you are hunting. The local conditions DO matter a lot, just like hunting or fishing.
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Old 07-02-2019, 07:22 PM
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where in south merica?
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Old 07-02-2019, 09:12 PM
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Columbia and Panama. I have also been to Brazil and Argentina and noted equal results.
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