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Old 03-21-2019, 09:19 AM
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[QUOTE=MikeeBooshay;12356538]VS, never forget, all women are bi.

It's our job to figure out if it is Bi-sexual or Bi-polar........[/QUOTE]

I thought that if they were one of those they would automatically be both
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Old 03-21-2019, 11:11 AM
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VS, never forget, all women are bi.

It's our job to figure out if it is Bi-sexual or Bi-polar........[/QUOTE]

I thought that if they were one of those they would automatically be both
There's good crazy....and bad crazy.
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Old 03-21-2019, 11:19 AM
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There's good crazy....and bad crazy.
The two go hand-in-hand normally. The trick is knowing when to cut bait after one takes over from the other. The 34YO NASCAR fan wants to go out again tonight and then hang at my place. Good crazy so far...
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Old 03-22-2019, 06:13 AM
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The two go hand-in-hand normally. The trick is knowing when to cut bait after one takes over from the other. The 34YO NASCAR fan wants to go out again tonight and then hang at my place. Good crazy so far...
She left at 7 AM. Still weird, but better. Her comments like, "No one's ever opened a car door for me before," leads me to believe that she's only dated little boys before and no real men who know how to treat a lady. This puts me in the odd position of trying to prove to her that all men don't suck. Anyway, she insisted on paying for dinner, which was nice.
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Old 03-22-2019, 07:48 AM
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She left at 7 AM. Still weird, but better. Her comments like, "No one's ever opened a car door for me before," leads me to believe that she's only dated little boys before and no real men who know how to treat a lady. This puts me in the odd position of trying to prove to her that all men don't suck. Anyway, she insisted on paying for dinner, which was nice.

It's very easy...you be a nice guy with chivalry and a back bone. Not that hard, however some seem to never grasp it. Nothing wrong with holding her hand, opening a car/building door, telling her she look nice, etc......but lay down the law in a firm way about what you want, don't want and what you will stand for. On one 1st date I had on Match, I had this chick with a young child gushing all over me (after I opened the door for her and did other gentlemanly things), telling me how wonderful I was, how her son could use a great role model in his life, etc.....I stopped her and said, "I'm one of the nicest guys you'll ever meet, but I'm still a single guy out to have fun". went on to tell her that I wasn't looking to be her sons father, not looking to get married or be monogamous and all the other stuff that needed to be said and then went back to her house and had one hell of a fun time. She became a great friend with benefits until she found her eventual husband.
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Old 03-24-2019, 05:22 AM
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She left at 7 AM. Still weird, but better. Her comments like, "No one's ever opened a car door for me before," leads me to believe that she's only dated little boys before and no real men who know how to treat a lady. This puts me in the odd position of trying to prove to her that all men don't suck. Anyway, she insisted on paying for dinner, which was nice.

Brains and a paycheck. Minimum requirement.
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Old 03-24-2019, 07:21 AM
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[QUOTE=Vitamin_Sea;12359789]
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She left at 7 AM. Still weird, but better. Her comments like, "No one's ever opened a car door for me before," leads me to believe that she's only dated little boys before and no real men who know how to treat a lady. This puts me in the odd position of trying to prove to her that all men don't suck. Anyway, she insisted on paying for dinner, which was nice.
I'm surprised that "real men" don't insist on paying for dinner.
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Old 03-24-2019, 02:43 PM
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Real men do
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Old 03-24-2019, 05:02 PM
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Originally Posted by LongIslandFisherman View Post
Real men do
And do real women accept this?
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Old 03-24-2019, 05:31 PM
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And do real women accept this?
No, especially the married ones who are out with their BFs
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Old 03-24-2019, 05:43 PM
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No, especially the married ones who are out with their BFs
Somebody who actually understands the concept.
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Old 03-25-2019, 05:25 AM
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I'm surprised that "real men" don't insist on paying for dinner.
2nd date. If by the 4th or 5th date she hasn't at least offered to pay for dinner, it's grounds for dismissal. Either that or she better look damn good. As I've stated before, I'm not running a charity.
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Old 04-10-2019, 08:42 AM
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What happened to this thread?
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Old 04-10-2019, 09:07 AM
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I got busy, not sure about the rest of the inmates.

Have kind of had one lady over a lot last few weeks, she has been trying very hard to domesticate me. We had the discussion - " you're not the only one I see", but it seems she only re-doubled her efforts after that. I did have a hard talk with her last night about "shit-testing " me when a friend of mine had too much to drink and stayed over Monday night. I wasn't giving up my friends, just for her sake, however bad choices my friends make, doesn't make me choose her over them as a blanket choice. Said friend WAS female, not someone I am involved with, but the jealousy bone was out full force. Pointed out that although I don't sleep with my ex, I still hang out with her and my daughter, am I getting the stinkeye over that eventually?

Took her to Louisiana with me last weekend, rain and all. While I was out fishing, she re-arranged my kitchen. I was not pleased, that felt a little invasive for my tastes. Thankfully, she has her kid for the next few days, and I have company this weekend, shooting match all weekend keeping me busy. SHe's cute, she's sexy, very giving type girl, smart etc, I hate to just toss her away, but don't like feeling suffocated much either......

There may or may not be a couple of friends come by during the match LOL.
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Old 04-10-2019, 09:25 AM
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What happened to this thread?
Too funny, because I was just thinking I have not seen any antics here lately.
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Old 04-10-2019, 09:27 AM
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Originally Posted by MikeeBooshay View Post
I got busy, not sure about the rest of the inmates.

Have kind of had one lady over a lot last few weeks, she has been trying very hard to domesticate me. We had the discussion - " you're not the only one I see", but it seems she only re-doubled her efforts after that. I did have a hard talk with her last night about "shit-testing " me when a friend of mine had too much to drink and stayed over Monday night. I wasn't giving up my friends, just for her sake, however bad choices my friends make, doesn't make me choose her over them as a blanket choice. Said friend WAS female, not someone I am involved with, but the jealousy bone was out full force. Pointed out that although I don't sleep with my ex, I still hang out with her and my daughter, am I getting the stinkeye over that eventually?

Took her to Louisiana with me last weekend, rain and all. While I was out fishing, she re-arranged my kitchen. I was not pleased, that felt a little invasive for my tastes. Thankfully, she has her kid for the next few days, and I have company this weekend, shooting match all weekend keeping me busy. SHe's cute, she's sexy, very giving type girl, smart etc, I hate to just toss her away, but don't like feeling suffocated much either......

There may or may not be a couple of friends come by during the match LOL.
She's rearranging your kitchen after a few weeks? WTF? She might as well have peed on your leg!
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Old 04-10-2019, 09:33 AM
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More like after a couple weeks. She won't be doing that again, I am sure. I told her that the possessive stuff has to quit, does not work for me. Am taking her on a business trip ( trade show ) end of month, as my usual crew is tied up, we will see how she does in the environment of my friends and co-workers/clients.
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Old 04-10-2019, 11:36 AM
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Originally Posted by MikeeBooshay View Post
More like after a couple weeks. She won't be doing that again, I am sure. I told her that the possessive stuff has to quit, does not work for me. Am taking her on a business trip ( trade show ) end of month, as my usual crew is tied up, we will see how she does in the environment of my friends and co-workers/clients.
I'd like to be the first to predict that this will NOT have a happy ending, at least for her.
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Old 04-10-2019, 01:31 PM
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She would do well to learn from the lessons of her predecessors - stay out of my business, don't get too close in daily life and don't drink all my whiskey or wine.
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Old 04-10-2019, 02:05 PM
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What happened to this thread?
Nothing to report. I cut the nutso 34 YO loose the other day. Just too cra-cra for me. I'm convinced she is either mentally disabled or has a major drinking problem, maybe both. I've backed way off on the hyper-obsessed runner for a while too. Let her run her six marathons in a row and then maybe I'll come back to her if I've got nothing else going on. Got a couple others in the spread, but nothing worth reporting on yet. Too busy working and trying to get the big boat ready for Hatteras next month with a little fishing thrown in-between. Thank God it's finally getting warm!
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