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Wet-n-Wiley 06-04-2007 06:59 PM

Well, last night was interesting
 
So, Sunday was a normal honey-do day with some simple chores and occasional checks on THT to see all was running well. When I finally took a break I started noticing my chest was a bit tight and I was short of breath. Next thing I know my heart is beating like a jack rabbit and my entire body has become numb. So, (after an act of congress) my wife convinced me to let her take me to the ER – I’m not one for hospitals!

When I arrived at the ER my initial blood pressure was 188/114! I tell you it felt like my head was about to explode. Once admitted, I had an EKG, Chest X-Ray, CAT scan of my head and a blood test to find what might be causing the blood pressure attack. After 3 hours lying in the ER room they gave me a pill to lower my BP and wanted to keep me overnight. I refused the overnight stay with assurance I would see my Doctor today and get on medication, which I did. Bottom line at 1:00am I was released, but I was still a bit concerned. The conclusion was “Severe Hypertension”!

Anyway I’m concerned but doing a bit better.

This note is not so much about Wiley’s “thinking he was a goner” experience so as it is what happened while I was lying in the ER with my wife beside me.

Around 11:30pm we overhear the hospital dispatch from Paramedics saying they were bringing in two girls, one non-responsive, both over-doses from drugs and alcohol. When the girls arrived by ambulance one was placed in the area next to me (separated by that curtain they use). They wheeled her passed us and she looked near death. She kept throwing-up and screaming so the staff placed a catheter in her and went on red-alert. Not pleasant. What was most shocking about this? The girl was only 13 years old!

It turns out the 13 yo girls sister was the other girl admitted in another area. I heard the staff talk that the 17 yo was much more serious (critical condition). So, now we have 13 and 17 year old sisters both in the hospital from drinking and drug overdoses, Xanax, marijuana and bottles of rum from what was reported.

So, tough night for the girls and their parent’s right? Well, mom strolls in to visit the 13 year old. Mom looked like she polished off a few down at the low-life grill herself. After looking at her 13 year old she said “I got to get away, I need air” and she went outside. Here this woman with 2 kids in the ER, one near death, and she “has to go get air”, leaving her kid alone while she was screaming – let me tell you my blood pressure again went through the roof.

End of story? Not yet. In yet another curtained room next to me is wheeled on by paramedics a 17 yo white male. The diagnosis was again a drug alcohol overdose but in an unrelated incident from the girls. This kid was so bad they had to strap him in and drug him out. We negotiated with the nurse to get me the heck out of there and she agreed.

On the way of the ER we saw “mom” outside acting as if she couldn’t believe what “she” had to go through, meanwhile her kids that could have used some comfort we’re suffering inside all alone. I didn’t make it obvious but shook my head at her and wondered if her actions are why her 13 and 17 yo girls are near death from an OD. Ya think? Sad!

Not sure of the girl’s final outcome but this was a first for me to experience the problem young kids are having with drugs and alcohol. I guess the days of a few beers with the buds are passé.

As for Wiley? Well, I begin my LOTREL and other treatments tonight. Doctor said I should take a break from the PC for a long while. See... I told you I was stessed!


;)

Take care all

trapit 06-04-2007 07:05 PM

Re: Well, last night was interesting
 
Wow, sounds fun. Chillax buddy and get away from THT. take another cruise or something. I hope ya get that under control :thumbsup:

Imthebeachgirl 06-04-2007 07:26 PM

Re: Well, last night was interesting
 
Aaawwww, Wiley, sorry to hear that you are having health problems..do what the Drs. order and you will be back to feeling well soon, I hope! That is really sad about those gals...sounds like they have too much unsupervised time on their hands. Mom needs to get a grip and start acting like the resposible parent she needs to be for her family!

coastboater 06-04-2007 07:28 PM

RE: Well, last night was interesting
 
You see all kinds in ER's - shame on the parents....

You may want to check out on of the Mayo Clinic's "executive wellness" programs. They check you out 9 ways to Sunday, if you know what I mean. Every crook and cranny ;)

It's expensive, 'round $4k, and insurance won't cover it, but it's worth it for the piece of mind, or at worse an early diagnosis, which dramatically increases your survival chances.

Relax, and have a drink! :thumbsup:

twentynine 06-04-2007 07:29 PM

Re: Well, last night was interesting
 
Think about the ER staff, they go through that everyday, everynight day after day after day!

So you read the word m%%nbat one to many times huh?

bluffman2 06-04-2007 07:32 PM

Re: Well, last night was interesting
 
wiley sorry to hear about that......hope you get better soon.....

Hydro 06-04-2007 07:33 PM

Re: Well, last night was interesting
 
Yeah, hospitals are pretty scary places. Sad thing is, things like what you witnessed happen dozens of times each day across the country. Hate to see that happen to such young kids. Now - on to the lecture! Glad you ended up OK, but you'll need to pay attention to your BP from now on. Listen to what the docs have to say and i'm sure they'll tell you to cut down on salt, get more exercise, etc., etc. Tell your Admiral thanks from all of us at THT that she got you to listen to her.

pugnacious33 06-04-2007 07:40 PM

Re: Well, last night was interesting
 
Hope you start feeling better Wiley..... start eating right and exercising, you won't regret it.

As for the kids.....bad parenting has become an epidemic in this country.....we need to start throwing parents in jail for the bad deeds of thier children.

That woman "needed some air" huh?.....as far as i'm concerned, she is wasting good air.

TrollnHeel 06-04-2007 07:40 PM

Re: Well, last night was interesting
 
Man that experience will surely open yer eyes. Just reading it makes me glad I got away from the drugs....not so much the alcohol as I do enjoy a few from time to time. It's a shame that parents let it get outta control and when their kids need them the most they just, "need to get some air".

As for you Wiley, take this as a sign and take a break. Yer health is more important than THT.

Get well soon! :)

KJS 06-04-2007 08:06 PM

Re: Well, last night was interesting
 
Wiley, as a father of 4 that story really breaks my heart. I could go on and on but will leave it at that. I am fairly strict on my kids 3-11 years old. Sometimes I think I am too strict.

In regards to yourself, I am sorry to hear about your health issues and hope that you get better. It sounds like the ER is not the place to go to if you have high blood pressure though.

welder 06-04-2007 08:21 PM

Re: Well, last night was interesting
 
Wiley, go fishing .


:thumbsup:

Glad your still with us.

Lester

welder 06-04-2007 08:25 PM

Re: Well, last night was interesting
 
And we are headed bac to the hospitial in a few min. to visit with our new Grand Daughter.
It's not next to th ER . ;)

Caita Jean , 8 lbs. 12 oz, 21", dark curly hair.

Grandma is on cloud 9

No ralph she's to young for you. :rofl:

randall 06-04-2007 08:35 PM

Re: Well, last night was interesting
 
welder...congrats has to be the best...all the good stuff...someone else does the work

wiley...go fishing

Bugbuster 06-04-2007 08:39 PM

Re: Well, last night was interesting
 
Try to keep dem headrushes at bay as much as you can. As for the kids? The world would probably be amazed how much better our children would be with a daily kiss and a hug and a "I love you". It's sad, but those two kids probably never received any of the three.

makosteve66 06-04-2007 08:51 PM

Re: Well, last night was interesting
 
Wiley time to spend some time on a boat rather than loking at computer screens about boats. You have an open invite any time the mood strikes. You look to be in too good shape for the BP nonsense. Do what the doc says and get it down. Mine was 122/73 ay the Dr. the other day. I have lost 100 lbs since November (not the you needed to lose weight) I feel great, if it weren't for my anke (that requires surgery) and I amj ust about off all my meds - the diabetes meds are gone and the BP pills are cut wayback. If I can do it, anyone can

rayteagarden1 06-04-2007 09:18 PM

Re: Well, last night was interesting
 
Hey Wiley, lotsa stress here, some of this bunch could piss-off the pope.

http://i65.photobucket.com/albums/h2...Charicture.jpg

Ray, Tennessee 2180DLX Carolina Skiff 90HP Honda

TrollnHeel 06-04-2007 09:32 PM

Re: Well, last night was interesting
 

welder - 6/4/2007 8:25 PM
No ralph she's to young for you. :rofl:

:banghead: :banghead:


Congrats on the new grand-daughter :thumbsup:

BarryD 06-04-2007 09:33 PM

Re: Well, last night was interesting
 
Wiley,

I went through the stress problems a few years ago. Had to learn to leave some of the business issues at work (not easy to do). You will get better.

Welder ,

Congrats on the new grand daughter. She will steal your heart.

Barry

bristol41 06-04-2007 10:01 PM

RE: Well, last night was interesting
 
Well, Wiley, with this crew it was just a matter of time. We have been badly behaved and you have been a great parent to us all. Now it is time for you and the Admiral to kick back and relax. A real shame about what you had to witness in the ER. I sometimes see things like this and wonder, what chance does a child with this kind of parenting have in this world of ours? My kids have always been encouraged to bring their friends home with them. The grocery bill may have been hard on the mastercard but the rewards have been priceless. And speaking of priceless, so are you. Take care .... please!

Dan & Sheila


PS Lester, congratulations. Your little one is in good hands.

Menzies 06-04-2007 10:21 PM

Re: Well, last night was interesting
 
I volunteer to take over some of Wiley's moderator duties.

I promise to be faithful to the THT constitiution and to all that stands for.
I promise to moderate with a maximum of 4 glasses of red wine only.
I promise that I will be an equal opportunity poofer.

Sound good?

OK Wiley gimme the passwords!

ESfishdoc 06-04-2007 10:36 PM

Re: Well, last night was interesting
 
Your not getting older, your getting better, (and older if the truth be told)

Sounds like you had a visit to Anywhere USA ER.... sad but true.

The Classic 06-04-2007 11:38 PM

Re: Well, last night was interesting
 
Don't stress out about THT Wiley, I've run a few websites with forums that were pretty big (albeit with a lot more help) and they aren't worth it.

As for the ER, its very disturbing, but what you explain seems tame compared to the ER in a big college town.

Seacat FL 06-05-2007 12:24 AM

RE: Well, last night was interesting
 

Wet-n-Wiley - 6/4/2007 6:59 PM

So, Sunday was a normal honey-do day with some simple chores and occasional checks on THT to see all was running well. When I finally took a break I started noticing my chest was a bit tight and I was short of breath. Next thing I know my heart is beating like a jack rabbit and my entire body has become numb. So, (after an act of congress) my wife convinced me to let her take me to the ER – I’m not one for hospitals!

As for Wiley? Well, I begin my LOTREL and other treatments tonight. Doctor said I should take a break from the PC for a long while. See... I told you I was stessed!


;)

Take care all
Take it easy Wiley! Get one of your hundred thousand or so friends here at THT to take you fishing or cruising or something. ;cool;

I will volunteer for cruising in the Canaveral area. :thumbsup:

Garett 06-05-2007 01:08 AM

Re: Well, last night was interesting
 
Stressed - eat lots of white turkey and drink plenty of red wine.....I know it's supposed to be white wine with turkey but hey red wine seams to work faster for some reason. Both the turkey and red wine will be a natural sedative for yah. ;)

Well I've promised you a few beers in the past when we meet, well if you get up this way on your recuperating time off I'll be sure to honor that offer and I'll even get you out for a little Great Lake's action. :thumbsup:

You take care of that health of your’s Wiley, it’s easier to discard an old car then it is the body.

Menzies 06-05-2007 07:49 AM

Re: Well, last night was interesting
 

Garett - 6/5/2007 1:08 AM


You take care of that health of your’s Wiley, it’s easier to discard an old car then it is the body.
Says the man who is walking around with a tree trunk for an arm!

HOTSPOT 06-05-2007 08:24 AM

Re: Well, last night was interesting
 
Go take a boat ride man, at least 6 days, doctor's orders. ;)

RI Builder 06-05-2007 08:26 AM

Re: Well, last night was interesting
 
Wiley:

Glad you are home and resting - now go take a trip to the Keys!!!

sac56fire 06-05-2007 09:09 AM

Re: Well, last night was interesting
 
Dump the bilge section and tell all the political hacks on here to take their hatemongering elsewhere. Nothing but boats, fishing ,rods and reels, family and fish pics and SANDBAR........you will be off meds in no time. Hope you feel better soon.

Wet-n-Wiley 06-05-2007 02:17 PM

Re: Well, last night was interesting
 
trapit, Imthebeachgirl, bluffman2, pugnacious33, randall, The Classic, HotSpot, RI Builder, sac56fire... Thanks for the well wishes!

I'm pretty sure I need a total lifestyle change and it's not 100% the daily stress of just what was here on the Forum.
I actually like to thin I'm pretty tough when it comes to this stuff but with a history of several heart attacks in my family it freaked me out a bit.

Wet-n-Wiley 06-05-2007 02:18 PM

RE: Well, last night was interesting
 

coastboater - 6/4/2007 7:28 PM

You see all kinds in ER's - shame on the parents....

You may want to check out on of the Mayo Clinic's "executive wellness" programs. They check you out 9 ways to Sunday, if you know what I mean. Every crook and cranny ;)

It's expensive, 'round $4k, and insurance won't cover it, but it's worth it for the piece of mind, or at worse an early diagnosis, which dramatically increases your survival chances.

Relax, and have a drink! :thumbsup:
I have actually thought of something this in the past and might someday do this. Thanks for the reminder.

Wet-n-Wiley 06-05-2007 02:19 PM

Re: Well, last night was interesting
 

Hydro - 6/4/2007 7:33 PM

Yeah, hospitals are pretty scary places. Sad thing is, things like what you witnessed happen dozens of times each day across the country. Hate to see that happen to such young kids. Now - on to the lecture! Glad you ended up OK, but you'll need to pay attention to your BP from now on. Listen to what the docs have to say and i'm sure they'll tell you to cut down on salt, get more exercise, etc., etc. Tell your Admiral thanks from all of us at THT that she got you to listen to her.
Yeah... If I lived alone chances are I'd never go to a hospital or doctor for any reason.

:o

Wife has a way of getting me to go!

:trout:

Wet-n-Wiley 06-05-2007 02:20 PM

Re: Well, last night was interesting
 

TrollnHeel - 6/4/2007 7:40 PM

Man that experience will surely open yer eyes. Just reading it makes me glad I got away from the drugs....not so much the alcohol as I do enjoy a few from time to time. It's a shame that parents let it get outta control and when their kids need them the most they just, "need to get some air".

As for you Wiley, take this as a sign and take a break. Yer health is more important than THT.

Get well soon! :)
Everything is fine if done in moderation....








..... including moderation (on my part).


PS. Beer is still in my diet!



:thumbsup:

Wet-n-Wiley 06-05-2007 02:21 PM

Re: Well, last night was interesting
 

Bugbuster - 6/4/2007 8:39 PM

Try to keep dem headrushes at bay as much as you can. As for the kids? The world would probably be amazed how much better our children would be with a daily kiss and a hug and a "I love you". It's sad, but those two kids probably never received any of the three.
:thumbsup: :thumbsup:

SurferGirl 06-05-2007 02:31 PM

RE: Well, last night was interesting
 
Be well.

Wet-n-Wiley 06-05-2007 02:36 PM

Re: Well, last night was interesting
 

makosteve66 - 6/4/2007 8:51 PM

Wiley time to spend some time on a boat rather than loking at computer screens about boats. You have an open invite any time the mood strikes. You look to be in too good shape for the BP nonsense. Do what the doc says and get it down. Mine was 122/73 ay the Dr. the other day. I have lost 100 lbs since November (not the you needed to lose weight) I feel great, if it weren't for my anke (that requires surgery) and I amj ust about off all my meds - the diabetes meds are gone and the BP pills are cut wayback. If I can do it, anyone can
Keep up the good work Steve! I think once the medication brings me down a bit and I drop some stress I should be able to get back on track. Funny, my BP has always been low and never a concern. This snuck up on me.

;?

Wet-n-Wiley 06-05-2007 02:38 PM

Re: Well, last night was interesting
 

ESfishdoc - 6/4/2007 10:36 PM

Your not getting older, your getting better, (and older if the truth be told)

Sounds like you had a visit to Anywhere USA ER.... sad but true.
Thanks, Doc!

I've been saying that phrase a lot lately!


Wet-n-Wiley 06-05-2007 02:40 PM

Re: Well, last night was interesting
 

Garett - 6/5/2007 1:08 AM

Stressed - eat lots of white turkey and drink plenty of red wine.....I know it's supposed to be white wine with turkey but hey red wine seams to work faster for some reason. Both the turkey and red wine will be a natural sedative for yah. ;)

Well I've promised you a few beers in the past when we meet, well if you get up this way on your recuperating time off I'll be sure to honor that offer and I'll even get you out for a little Great Lake's action. :thumbsup:

You take care of that health of your’s Wiley, it’s easier to discard an old car then it is the body.
Thanks Garett.

I'm a pretty big Cab fan but need to look for something lighter, like some Pinos. Here in the heat it would be nice to have a chilled red, maybe like a chilled Zin? Not sure which blends of reds are best chilled (slightly).

Thanks for the inivte too!

Afishinado 06-05-2007 09:37 PM

Re: Well, last night was interesting
 
Glad you have things under control Wiley. Sometimes these 'wake up' calls are what we really need. Bummer we can't just hit the old 'On Star' button and ask WTF?

I complained Friday to my doc that I quit smoking in Dec and still can't run 1/2 mile. I used to run like Forrest Gump.... He says lose 25 years and 50 lbs and you can again... Smartazzes.....

Stay well, I'll hook up with ya at the Square Grouper in the winter.

fidhhook54 06-05-2007 10:02 PM

RE: Well, last night was interesting
 
Sorry to hear that.

diet helps alot, lots grilled fish, no spicies, no salt no oils no butter. I know is hard to cut salt alltogether. grilled salmon is awesome.
Alot of cranberry juice, Orange, grapefruit juice an grape juice.

lot of fresh veggies.

cut soda if possible.

cut the salt and the sugar for a while and you will see improvements.
off course try to cut stress.

Bruce W 06-05-2007 10:50 PM

RE: Well, last night was interesting
 
Wiley,

Back in Dec., I had to go to the doc for an "insurance physical" - I have not been in a hospital overnight ONCE since I was 13 (47 YEARS ago!). Also hadn't had a REAL "physical" in probably 30 YEARS!

Well, to start with, my BP was 220/110! Needless to say, I asked the nurse what was "normal"? When she said 120/80, I thought they were gonna' send me RIGHT to the ER!

Long story short, after taking some (2) perscribed meds (BP & a diuretic) and a few dietary adjustments, I had my BP back down to 127/78 by March (after visiting the doc every 2 weeks)! Now, I don't have to go back 'til October (on my BIRTHDAY, no less!) :thumbsup:

My "bad" cholosterol was up a little (7 "points", I think?) also, but we'll be working on that come October!

BIGGEST thing the doc told me concerning the high BP was to cut down on the SALT - salt from canned foods (especially veggies), salt from "prepared frozen foods", salt from the salt shaker, etc..

I have been using next to NO "real" salt and found some "potassium-based" salt-substitue that Morton's Salt makes - NO sodium and 17% potassium - not bad, either. The "Salt-Free Mrs. Dash Seasoning Blend" is pretty decent, too.

I tried some Campbell's "40% less sodium" soup and THAT stuff was NASTY! Most ALL soups have about 40%+ sodium (per serving) - even the "dried" (add boiling water) ones! There are also a variety of "salt-free" canned veggies, but the FRESH veggies are really the best!

Even when the sodium content of a product LOOKS low, look at the "per serving" AMOUNT - often the "serving size" is VERY small!

Now - if I can just stop the dam SMOKING, I'll be back to my "fighting weght/condition"! :Q :grin: :thumbsup:

Hope you're feeling better and "reading up" on the hypertension and "no salt" stuff! :thumbsup:

That was QUITE an experience you had to endure in the ER with the 2 girls - VERY sad about their Mom, too! :nono:

I know you didn't need THAT going on when you were alREADY scared as he$$ about yourSELF!

Take care and start living a "cleaner" life! :grin: :thumbsup:

Regards,


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