Ashville is nice

. The hurricane worries should be broached. They do come around but it is more of a preperation and insurance thing than anything else. Oh, and knowing when to just pull up and leave!
Seriously though the coastal regions are great and each region offers up different attributes than others so spend some time in the car and take some time to check it out. There is a true give and take between towns so it will depend on you and the families comromise.
Of course I have heard Maine is great too!