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Originally Posted by Dulcecita Lures Women only listen when... it isn't their husband/boyfriend giving them instructions!! |
It's hard for them to change the habits of a lifetime
I took a woman colleague from work out for her first marlin fish with another guy from the office earlier this year. Provided the normal instructions and tuition the night before (as I have done many times) on working a game chair and a 50w reel/rod combo. Two hours into the trip she is hooked up to a 200lb marlin and immediately proceeds to do everything I told her not to do. Once the fish had settled down I came down to the cockpit and worked the controls there so I could provide fresh guidance. This woman is neither my wife nor my girlfriend, but we have worked together for many years. It might as well have been my wife for all the notice she took of the guidance

Worst performance I Have ever seen on a rod on my boat. We eventually got the fish after about 45 minutes (should have been 20 - 25mins). After landing her first marlin less than 3 hours into her first trip, she proceeded to complain that it wasn't very big. This woman is a nice lady and we are friends after working together for so long, but


What I learned - they don't need to be married to you, just have to know you well enough to think they know better.