Yep, I finally made up my mind and I feel good about it. Thanks to all that have posted on this site as well as talking to friends at the Miami show! What made up my mind was a friend called me on my cell this afternoon. He is an area manager for one of the big box marine stores in south FL, and his company was exibiting at the show and he was working the show. They sell all of the main brands, Raymarine, Furuno, Northstar, etc. He just wrote a check for a down payment on a new 31 Sea Vee yesterday, and outfitted it with the electronics today. He went with the Ray C120 and strongly suggested that I do the same. Again, he sells all of the others and could not stop talking about the new "C" series. He was so pumped, he wrote a check for the actual C120 display unit at the show, and after it is sent back for a clean up it will be shipped back to him.
Following is what I went with:
Raymarine C120
Ray 120 WAAS
DSM 250
Pathfinder 4kw dome
Transom 600w ducer wish Regulator would allow a thru hull!

Navionics gold chart
ICOM 402 VHF black
Digital 8' antenna white
ICOM M1V handheld
ACR 406 Cat1 Epirb
Simrad AP11-15 autopilot with RC125 rate compass
Sony CDX am/fm cd receiver
Sony Xplode 1000 amp
Sony 6 1/2" marine speakers "4" units
Sony 8" marine speakers "2" units
Sony marine remote
Sony XM tuner module w/ marine XM antenna
Digital 8' am/fm antenna to match VHF antenna white
I will also use my Garmin 2006C as an extra chartplotter in the t-top electronics box. All electronics will be flush mounted.
I have learned so much from the THT forums and want to thank all of you for not just lurking, but posting useful information.