You might find the cabin can be warmer overnight than you think. My cabin is actually pretty comfortable in the spring and fall.
The relatively small space will warm up with just you in it. I get a little bit of heat from my laptop which I use to watch and even the cabin lights can provide some heating.
A good sleeping bag and I'm all set. If the wife is with me and it gets too chilly she'll just snuggle up close

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I've had no problems with nights down into the low 50's even the occasional upper 40's. Lower than that I'd probably bring an extra blanket just in case.
As for heat for the kids while on the water sometimes just getting out of the wind is enough. Have a blanket on board they can use. On a sunny day with full canvas up it can actually get very warm.
I would stay away from anything propane with kids around. It's just not worth the risk!